Wednesday, March 30, 2011

No. 4 is coming to town

When I started this blog, soon after that I was pregnant with Akil.  Now, I did it again, no. 4 yuooolsss… Some would say, What? and some would congratulate me but most of the people don’t know.. J   My reaction?  Of courselah, a big shocked and surprised.  I didn’t expect this to happen when I am not ready.  I guess, Allah knows.  I take it with open heart and accept this as my rezeki.  Taking care of 3 kids pun tak larat, what more with having to do all the chores, most of the time by myself.  Penatnye kdg2 tuhan jer yg tau.. hubby do help with the chores but because he works on shift basis, and even weekend, my my.. I tell you the house can be up side down.  The laundry?  You bet!  It will be never ending story..  oklah, udah2lah membebel tu…

 

Do you that I am 14 weeks now and the baby is the size of a lemon.  I am in second trimester already!  My loya2 still do not disappear.  The baby can now squint, frown, grimace, pee and possibly suck his thumb (source:  babycenter.com).  Allah maha kuasa.  Amazing isn’t.  Berbaliklah semula routine saya jumpa Dr. Siti (long queue) again.  Last week, baru check up.  My GBS can only be tested towards the end of my pregnancy.. Another 5 weeks, to see Dr. again to do all the test! 

 

What else?  Facebook.  Many people get hook with Facebook.  Fine, no problem at all as long as you know the limit.  Anyway, I have a friend that I know from school days.  We are in the same class and we know each other well.  Usually, people will add me as friend (sebabnya I’m not into facebook sgt).. but this time around I requested to be her friend.  We are friends, from school.  You have been to my house (rumah quarters jer) and I have been to your house (rumah bungalow).  She accepted me as her friend.  Yeay, I’m glad.  Later, I found out that I have no access to her photos or status or whatever.. (again, I’m not IT savvy).  Dlm hati, come onlah, we used to be friends in school, takkan nak tgk gambar anak2 you tu tak boleh.  I ni bukannya kepochi or being busy body.. I guess, I have to respect her privacy or lifestyle which is totally different than me.  People change, mind you!   You are rich and I am poor (especially in mathematics, hahaha).  I don’t deserve to be your friend.. (Don’t accept me at the first place, if you are hiding everything – restrict the access to only your choosen friends).  Hey, come onlah, benda macam ni pun ko nak bising ke cik midah.. yelah2, I don’t know why I get so emotional and pissed off.  Probably because she is my friend, my clique during school days and I’m sad because we had so much fun last time (memorable ones- tak caya? Ada byk gambar kat album rumah i), I ada bukti, you ada ke?. 

Org tak sudi, tak payah terhegeh2 k.  Dulu kawan, sekarang stranger!  Case closed!

 

Facebook ni jugak terjadi pergaduhan antara sedara mara kawe, ungkit mengungkit, tuduh menuduh, kutuk mengutuk.. ish, tak patutlah korang ni, sampai sekarang gaduh lagi.. Raya nanti korang minta maaflah ya…  kan bagus kalau ianya dijadikan sebagai knowledge of information.. cewah!  Don’t overuse this type of social network, please make use of it!  Know your rights, know your limit as a muslim especially if you are a women.  Byk kes penceraian terjadi and antara faktornya ialah kerana mukabuku itu..   

 

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