Thursday, December 31, 2009
Monday, December 21, 2009
Dosa Mengamalkan Sihir
SOALAN: Semakin hari semakin jauh masyarakat kita terpesong daripada
ajaran agama. Bagaimana mengembalikan semula ajaran agama dalam
kehidupan kita? – Anak Melaka sejati, Bandar Melaka.
Jawapan: Saya menjawab persoalan ini semata-mata berdasarkan kenyataan
yang saudara kemukakan. Saya anggap, pengalaman saudara itu sesuatu
yang benar dan mahukan jawapan yang pasti lagi tepat.
Faktor utama menyebabkan seseorang itu terlibat dengan amalan sihir
ialah kerana ia tidak menyedari bahawa sihir itu salah satu dosa
besar, yang membinasakan, merosakkan diri orang yang berkenaan, orang
lain, juga masyarakat.
Merosakkan iman seseorang yang akhirnya menentukan seseorang itu akan
dimasukkan dalam neraka jahanam atau di syurga. Sihir boleh
menyebabkan syirik. Dosa besar yang tidak diampuni oleh Allah swt.
Seseorang itu mungkin tahu sihir itu dosa besar, tetapi ia tidak
menyedari natijah buruk akibatnya. Semuanya diketepikan, asalkan
cita-citanya berhasil, contohnya dicalonkan menjadi ketua, calon atau
pengundi rasa belas kepadanya, tidak berupaya berfikir waras, calon
gerun atau tunduk kepadanya, seumpama terpukau.
Keadaan ini boleh berlaku akibat daripada sihir, yang dilakukan
melalui perantaraan individu tertentu, contohnya individu yang saudara
pergi dua kali di pinggir ibu kota di tengah malam, di mana rambut
calon diambil sebahagian daripadanya.
Sihir tidak boleh berlaku kecuali dengan adanya penglibatan jin atau
jin-jin yang boleh menyebabkan pengundi tunduk, seumpama mamai,
menurut sahaja apa yang disuruh oleh bakal calon tadi. Disuruh ikrar,
ikrar, disuruh sumpah, bersumpah, apatah lagi disogokkan dengan wang,
makan malam, sarapan pagi, baju kurung dan seumpamanya.
Inilah di antara contoh di mana manusia, dalam usaha untuk mendapat
kuasa undi menggunakan "khidmat" jin atau jin-jin, yang berkemungkinan
terdiri daripada iblis dan syaitan.
Allah memberi amaran bahawa syaitan itu adalah musuh yang nyata lagi
jelas. Dalam keadaan apa sekalipun, makhluk ini hendaklah dianggap
sebagai musuh. Calon seperti ini secara tidak langsung menjadikan
syaitan itu temannya, di mana ia meminta tolong kepadanya. Dalam surah
An-Nisa: 38 Allah menjelaskan bahawa sesiapa yang menjadikan syaitan
itu temannya, maka syaitan itu adalah sejahat-jahat teman.
Dalam surah al-Jinn:6, pula dijelaskan memang terdapat manusia yang
meminta pertolongan atau perlindungan kepada jin atau jin-jin, maka
jin-jin itu akan menambah bagi orang yang berkenaan itu dosa dan
kesalahan.
Mungkin orang berkenaan tahu tentang dosa-dosa dan balasan Allah
akibat perbuatannya. Dalam masalah ini, kita kena ingat bahawa
seseorang itu bertanggungjawab terhadap kewajipan yang berkaitan
dengan Allah, berkaitan hak manusia, juga hak-hak yang berkaitan
dengan hak Allah dan hak manusia. Semuanya mesti dilaksanakan.
Mengenai hak yang berkaitan dengan hak manusia, sekiranya seseorang
itu bertaubat dan ia ada tanggungjawab dengan manusia, hak tersebut
mesti disempurnakan, seperti hutang yang berkaitan dengan harta,
maruah, kezaliman dan sebagainya. Diselesaikan atau dipohon halalkan
ataupun dipohon kemaafan. Kerana itu apabila amalan sihir itu
melibatkan kezaliman terhadap diri manusia, orang yang berkenaan
hendaklah memohon maaf kepada individu yang terlibat, juga mohon
keampunan kepada Allah kerana ia telah melakukan dosa besar yang
dilarang dalam Islam.
Diinsafi
Perlu disedarkan dan diinsafi bahawa orang yang melakukan sihir ialah
mereka yang melakukan sesuatu tindakan dengan menggunakan iblis dan
syaitan yang terdiri daripada golongan jin-jin. Mereka bertindak
supaya orang lain terpukau, rasa gerun kepadanya, rasa takut, rasa
sayang, mengikut telunjuknya, menyakiti orang lain menyebabkan orang
menderita. Suami isteri bergaduh akhirnya bercerai. Larikan anak dara
orang dalam keadaan terpukau. Mangsa sihir boleh menjadi hilang akal,
gila, melolong dan lain-lain perbuatan histeria
Perlu disedar, diinsafi bahawa orang yang melakukan perbuatan sihir,
melalui perantaraan orang lain yang ditemani di tengah malam, sama ada
di pinggiran gunung atau pinggiran ibu kota seperti yang saudara
temani, sebenarnya orang yang terlibat tidak tahu apa itu sebenarnya
sihir.
Mainan sihir iaitu mainan menggunakan iblis dan syaitan itu tidak ubah
seumpama melepaskan anjing liar, untuk menyerang mangsanya,
orang-orang tertentu, musuh yang menjadi seteru, rakan kongsi atau
lawan politik untuk merebut ketua bahagian ataupun ketua cawangan.
Anjing yang dilepaskan itu anjing liar, yang dia tidak kenali dan
tidak tahu apakah yang akan dilakukan oleh anjing itu. Sama ada
menerkam mangsa, membaham bahagian tengkok, kepala, seluruh badan dan
sebagainya, menyebabkan mangsa menderita, mungkin mati akibat ragutan
geraham anjing liar tadi.
Begitu juga tamsilnya kepada orang yang terlibat dengan sihir, menemui
orang-orang tertentu untuk menyakiti lawannya. Makhluk ini akan
menyerang orang yang berkenaan dan tidak diketahui apa kesudahan
terjadi kepada manusia. Sekali makhluk ini menyerang, ia akan terus
menyerang. Mangsa akan selamat sekiranya pertahanan dirinya kuat,
hasil daripada bertakarub kepada Allah dan perlindungan Allah hasil
daripada tadaruk dan takwa kepada Allah.
Serangan anjing adalah serangan fizikal. Serangan iblis dan syaitan
ialah pada roh atau jiwa mangsa. Kerana itu mangsa sihir melibatkan
gangguan roh, menyebabkan seseorang itu resah gelisah, sedih, suka,
ketawa, meracau tanpa dapat mengawal diri. Tidak boleh tidur malam,
sentiasa ada rasa was-was, syak wasangka dan sebagainya.
Pada satu tahap tertentu, serangan makhluk ini tertumpu pada bahagian
otak, menyebabkan mangsa bertindak atau berkelakuan ketidaknormalan
otak, serangan pada hati menyebabkan mangsa was-was, rasa hendak bunuh
diri, rasa kecewa hidup dan sebagainya, tanpa ada alasan atau sebab
yang jelas.
Mangsa sihir juga menyebabkan seseorang itu seumpama terpukau, tunduk
mengeluarkan wang di dompet, emas di pergelangan tangan juga
mengeluarkan wang melalui mesin atau 'arahan' orang yang melakukan
sihir. Banyak terjadi mangsa sihir terpukau, ikut turut kepada
pelakunya, iaitu dirogol dan sebagainya.
Perlu difahami orang yang melakukan perbuatan sihir yang diistilahkan
sebagai "sihir", tidak akan melakukan sembahyang seperti saudara
jelaskan. Sekiranya ia melakukan sembahyang, seperti yang saudara
lihat, sembahyang adalah tidak diterima Allah. Mesti difahami bahawa
sembahyang itu mencegah pelakunya daripada melakukan kejahatan dan
kemungkaran.
Bererti bahawa orang yang sembahyang tidak akan melakukan perbuatan
sihir, kerana sihir itu adalah sebesar-besar kemungkaran dan
kejahatan. Sembahyang mencegah pelakunya, iaitu orang yang melakukan
sembahyang itu daripada melakukan kejahatan. Bererti biarpun orang
yang melakukan perbuatan sihir itu sembahyang, dia sebenarnya tidak
sembahyang dalam erti kata sebenar.
Tidak sembahyang di sini bererti bahawa sembahyang yang dilakukan itu
tidak sah iaitu terbatal, ataupun sembahyang yang dilakukan itu sah,
tetapi tidak diterima oleh Allah. Apabila sembahyang yang dilakukan
itu tidak diterima Allah, maka sembahyang tersebut tidak boleh
mencegah tuannya, iaitu orang yang melakukan sembahyang itu daripada
melakukan perbuatan jahat dan kemungkaran. diperjelaskan bahawa sihir
adalah sejahat-jahat kemungkaran dan kejahatan.
Selain daripada faktor yang dijelaskan, orang yang melibatkan amalan
sihir adalah mereka yang tunduk kepada kehendak nafsu. Dosa sihir
selain tidak difahami, tidak disedari atau disedari, tetapi matlamat
kemenangan yang diperoleh itu dirasakan lebih utama, atau lebih besar
manfaatnya berbanding dengan dosa-dosa dan kezaliman terhadap amalan
sihir yang tidak seberapa difahami atau dimaklumi.
Membinasakan umat
Cukuplah dengan rasuah yang membinasakan umat, membinasakan negara,
masyarakat juga individu. Kebinasaan atau kaum atau parti politik itu
akan terserlah apabila amalan rasuah itu digabung dengan sihir. Allah
melaknat orang yang menerima rasuah, pemberi rasuah, juga runner yang
menjadi pengantara.
Orang yang seperti ini, iaitu yang terlibat dengan rasuah juga amalan
sihir apabila menjadi pemimpin akan meneruskan amalan tersebut. Orang
seperti ini besar kemungkinan boleh berjaya, kerana manusia lebih
rakus dengan wang, glamour dan kesenangan zahiriah.
Walaupun perlu diingat, bahawa apabila Allah melaknat seseorang,
terutamanya mereka yang terlibat dengan rasuah juga amalan sihir,
bererti Allah tidak meredai hidup mereka. Allah tidak berkati hidup
mereka, kaya, disaluti emas berlian bergemerlapan, tetapi mereka tidak
akan memperoleh ketenangan pada diri, juga keluarga. Tidak ada sesuatu
yang lebih nikmat hidup dalam dunia ini selain daripada ketenangan.
Wedding Anniversary Present
any major celebrations or big presents. Normal practice, a wish and
sometimes with small presents will do. This time around, hubby bought
me an iphone from my brother. The most expensive wedding anniversary
present i ever received. Thank you darling, going to write him a love
letter and buy him present too!
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Bandung
name of this place. The place is quite beautiful and calming. We went
to Bandung on the first day of puasa this year. Saturday morning depart
and Wednesday evening sampai M'sia. Pergi ramai2, my family - parents,
adik & pina's family except Syafiq and Abang, Cik Yot, Izan & Family,
Cik Timah, Cik Non, Cik Ani, Cik Zizah, Aza n Family, Win. Do I miss
someone? Seronok and fun. Last day aku pegi rumah mode, just imagine a
few hours nak balik. Aku dah macam Amazing Race kat Rumah Mode, nak
kejar masa. I grabbed what I like and some of the clothes I don't have
time to think about it. Bile nak bayar, dlm 1.3 juta rupiah. I didn't
captured a lot of pictures. When we were there, Akil Fatihin was sick,
had fever, coughing and flu. I was so afraid and risau of him. Demam
pun on and off.
I am sure that I want to visit Bandung some other time. This time
around I will go to Rumah Mode first then only I go to Pasar Baru.
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Giant's playground
FW: Onion - A MUST READ
I received an email from my colleague on this article. I found it very interesting and will give a try!.
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Friday, December 4, 2009
Akil Fatihin was admitted
I was rushing to go back and took Akil to see Dr. Uncle. I was late, but i'm not the last person to see the doctor. Arrived 3.35pm, took the GL and went back again to his office. When Dr. checked his temperature, it was 39 degree. He was wheezing and got flu too. Dr. gave him ubat bontot for his fever and told me to admit Akil because he has not recovered for quite a long time. Just imagine, since raya puasa. He got eye infection too.. infected from Alesya. Where Alesya got it? Of course, from the nursery.
Akil got to take X-Ray as Dr. want to see his chest. We went to the room first and then only we went to X-Ray room. When we were there, I got to put on the X-Ray attire, blue colour and quite heavy. I cannot hold his hands and at the same time to control his legs from moving. Since i cannot do it, the staff got to do it for me. I have to wait at the process room. Once done, went back again to the room. Guess what? It was the same room and bed when Akif admitted last time due to his food poisoning. The same bed and the same room. All the single room was not available and it is two bedded room. The last time, we got no neighbour but yesterday we got accompanied. Got to cover line a bitlah since we got to share the same room.
Akil got to do nebulizer every 4 hours, the first nite he was still having a fever, around 38.2 degree. Yesterday, he got to go to physio to suck his phlegm. First session, he did it at 1 o'clock and it was hard for him. Just imagine, a small wayer got into your nose and mouth, sucking all your phlegm. He was crying badly, i really felt pity to him. Btw, i got the eye infection, infected from Akil, mine was bad compared to him. The 2nd session was not so effective, not much phlegm coming out from his nose. Then i thought this whole suction thingy was over, he got to do it for the 3 rd time just now. This one was good, they were able to take out his phlegm and the staff advised me to give him plenty of water and taught me how to do at home (before going to bed and after he wakes up). Got to do another 2 nebulizer before we can be discharged (saturday).
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Today is Akil Fatihin 8 Months Old Birthday!
Today is Akil Fatihin 8 Months Old Birthday! I have forgotten about his immunization-Hepatitis B. Tomorrow, I’m going to bring him to see Dr. Uncle. Aduhai, tak baik lagi batuk anak aku ni.. Kesian kat dia…
I got email from baby center weekly for Akil’s development. I copied and pasted in this blog so that I can remember and read this later. Most are the info are correct. My hubby always tell me that what he read in the baby center on our kids development are right and correct.
Hello Azlinda!
8 month old, first week
Many babies are pulling themselves up now, grabbing on to any available piece of furniture and then standing while holding onto it in a wobbly way. Some babies walk as early as eight months, others not until well into their second year. All are still well within the normal range. Most babies work out how to stand up fairly easily on their own. The thing that stumps many of them is sitting back down again! When your little one pulls himself to a stand and then cries for you to sit him back down, don't rush to pick him up. Instead, show him how to bend his knees so his journey back down doesn't end with such a thud.
Say hello, wave goodbye
Your baby is starting to understand what it means when someone leaves his sight, the result of a growing understanding of object permanence. An exciting demonstration of this comes the first time he tries to imitate a goodbye wave by twisting his wrist or flapping his hand. Not all eight-month-olds can wave bye bye, but it's a fun skill to anticipate. Sometimes you'll notice that your baby is waving goodbye long after you've gone. This is a good sign that your baby is processing the idea of saying goodbye and trying it out.
Your 8-month-old's development
www.babycenter.com.my/baby/development/08mth/
·Sitting, crawling, and standing
·Is my baby developing normally?
Sitting, crawling, and standing
Now that he's eight months old, your baby is probably sitting well without support and may be crawling or moving about by bottom shuffling (scooting around on his posterior using a hand behind him and a foot in front of him to propel himself). He's probably starting to pull himself up to a standing position while holding onto furniture. In fact, if you stand your baby next to the sofa, he'll probably be able to hold himself up, hanging on for dear life and using the furniture for support.
This newfound mobility means that your baby is now entering the land of bumps and falls. These are an inevitable part of childhood, and although your heart may occasionally skip a beat or two, try to enjoy watching your baby explore his surroundings and discover his limits. Restraining your innate desire to protect your child allows him to grow and learn for himself. However, do make every effort to make your home safe for your baby. For example, you should secure fragile objects (so they won't topple) and keep rickety furniture in rooms that don't get much baby traffic.
Using his hands
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Your baby may start looking for dropped objects and use his index finger to point at them. He's also good at using his fingers to scoop up a piece of food and hold it with his fist closed, and he's learned to open his hand and fingers at will to drop and throw objects. He's probably beginning to master the pincer grasp, the delicate maneuver that lets him pick up small objects with his thumb and first and second fingers.
Getting more emotional
By now your baby's emotions are becoming more obvious. He may perform tricks, such as throwing a kiss to familiar people, and may repeat his act if applauded. Over the next few months, your child may learn to assess and imitate moods and might show the first stirrings of empathy. For instance, if he sees someone crying, he may start crying, too.
Dealing with separation
At this age, most babies have typically already begun to show the signs of separation anxiety. Your baby may start to be shy or anxious around strangers, especially when tired or irritable, and when you're out of sight and not with him, he'll become upset. Although it's hard to see your baby distressed, it's important to let him experience this. When you leave your baby and return, proving that you always come back, you're helping him develop trust and the ability to form attachments to other people.
When you leave your baby, kiss and hug him and tell him you'll be back. If he's frightened or just falls apart, take the extra time to calm and reassure him. It's hard not to cry when he starts crying, but your breaking down only prolongs the agony. It may help to have someone else he's familiar with (not a new babysitter) there to calm him. If your baby gets anxious about nighttime separations, spend some extra cuddle time reading, snuggling and softly singing together before you put him to bed.
Some babies are good at separation and some aren't - it depends on their temperament. Every child is different, as is the amount of reassurance each needs. If you know your baby needs more calming, don't feel bad about giving it or worry that you're just drawing out the process. You know your child better than anyone else, so follow your instincts.
Exploring objects
Most babies now explore objects by shaking them, banging them, dropping them and throwing them before falling back on the tried-and-true method of gumming them. The idea that you do something to an object is beginning to emerge, so an activity centre with lots of things your baby can bang, poke, twist, squeeze, shake, drop and open will fascinate him.
At this stage, babies like to see things fall down, get picked up (by you, of course) and then get thrown down again. Your baby isn't trying to goad you with this cycle; he just finds the spectacle interesting, and naturally wants to see it again and again.
Your baby now understands how objects relate to one another, too. For example, he realises that smaller things fit inside bigger ones. He'll easily find something you hide, and he'll point or look at the correct picture when an object is named. And over the next few months, he'll start to use objects for their intended functions - brushing his hair, drinking from a cup and babbling on his play phone.
Improving vision
Your baby's vision is now almost adult-like in its clarity and depth perception. Though his short-range sight is still better than his long-range sight, his vision is good enough to recognise people and objects across a room.
Is my baby developing normally?
Remember, each baby is unique and meets physical milestones at his or her own pace. These skills are simply a guide to what your baby has the potential to accomplish - if not right now, then shortly.
If your baby was born prematurely, you'll probably find that it will be a little while before he can do the same things as other children his age. Don't worry, most doctors assess a premature child's development from the time he should have been born and evaluate his skills accordingly.
Parents aku ada 7 org cucu
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Duit aku kena telan
Oh, cik kena call bank ATM card tu, mmg procedure dia cam tu.
Otw balik ofis, masa nak scan bag segala bagai, baru aku realize, eh, mana slip transaction rejected tu.. dah hilang.. mcmana boleh hilang, apa2 naik ofis dulu.
Call bank ATM card aku tu, dia kata, kami akan check and at the same time cik boleh check within 14 days. Check whether duit rm1k tu dorang dah bank in. Aku pun bukak speaker kuat2, HAH, LAMANYA.. Cik, kalau boleh kami percepatkan, kami akan usaha... slip transaction saya td terjatuh, tak tau letak mana. Oh, takpe, janji cik dah telefon kami hari ni.
Kalau dorang tak masukkan duit aku tu camne? Sape nak kasi aku rm1k tu? Siaplah korang, kalau korang tak masukkan, aku tutup account aku kat bank tu.





