I like to eat grapes with this pregnancy. Its been a month or so.... I'm supposed to see Dr. Siti for my check up today but have to cancel it due to financial crisis. Hahaha... gua brokelah brother. Tunggu gaji baru jumpa Dr. Hopefully, baby is doing fine in the womb.
Its been a week Alesya with her temper tantrums. You make Papa and Mummy stress. Why are you behaving like this Alesya??? We gave a full attention at her not ignore her. We noticed that since she started new nursery she is like totally in a different world. Or is it because of this pregnancy? Or is it because she only wants to attract our attention? Semuanya tak kena, nak tutup lampu, kena tutup tv, nak pakai selipar atas katil, nak duduk atas iron boardlah, x kasi pakai tudunglah, well so many things....
Akif behaving so well these days.. Probably because he understands that what is happening now. He helped Papa to pick up popcorn that Alesya intentionally dropped. Am I using the right words? Akif tgh belajar doa utk masuk tandas. Belum hafal sepenuhnya...
Friday, February 20, 2009
Cash is King
Well, we had an engagement meeting in the office with some makan2. It was very informal one, boss talked while we enjoyed the packed lunch. I found that I cannot concentrate what he said while I ate the lunch. Hmmmm.... probably because of my sleepiness also. He mentioned about the economic situation that we will be facing. The company did worst last year. We need to prove to shareholders that we are valueable to keep it going. What I attracted and worried was when he mentioned about Cash. Being an experienced person, he asked us to keep as much cash as possible. He gave an example when the country faced reccession in 1997. You can get Mercedes worth RM250K for RM80K but you must pay about 70% of cash to buy that. You can also get a bungalow in Ulu Klang worth RM120K only. One suggested that we buy groceries in bulk, of course you have to share with as many possible buyers. He advised us to keep Cash as much as we can. Being a contract staff myself, I am definately worried with the current situation. Gaji sekarang ni pun tak cukup. Ni nak tambah another baby will cost us and will put a hole in our pockets. Insyaallah, rezeki anak2 Allah yg tentukan. Insyaallah, Allah akan murahkan rezeki kami sekeluarga. Always remember, buy something that you need not sth unnecessary. Think twice!!!
Friday, February 13, 2009
I really like this song and the lyrics
Ku membenarkan jiwaku
Untuk mencintaimu
Ku persembahkan hidupku
Untuk bersama kamu
Dan diriku untuk kamu
Belum pernah kumerasai begitu
Semua itu telah berlalu
Harapanku palsu
Dan mungkin hari yang satu
Terus ku tertunggu
Di hatiku masih kamu
Belum pernah ku ingin terus memburu
Aku lemah tanpa kamu
Ku inginmu dampingi ku
Aku fahami aku bukan terbaik
Untuk dirimu
Namun aku tetap aku
Yang terbaik untuk diriku
Hanya satu
Hanya kamu
Ku membiarkan hatiku
Untuk merinduimu
Ku menghamparkan sakitku
Untuk tatapan kamu
Bersamamu harapanku
Hilang dalam terang yang membutakanku
Aku lemah tanpa kamu
Ku inginmu dampingi ku
Aku fahami aku bukan terbaik
Untuk dirimu
Sampai syurga ku menunggu
Sampai syurga ku cintamu
Hanya kamu
Dan segala yang ku ada
Ku berikan semua
Untuk dirimu saja
Ku mahu dirimu
Bahagia untuk selamanya
Biar sampai syurga
Aku menunggu cinta darimu
Agar ku sempurna
Aku fahami aku bukan terbaik
Untuk dirimu
Namun aku tetap aku
Yang terbaik tuk diriku
Hanya satu
Aku lemah tanpa kamu
Ku inginmu dampingi ku
Aku fahami aku bukan terbaik
Untuk dirimu
Sampai syurga ku menunggu
Sampai syurga ku cintamu
Hanya kamu
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Alesya Pulak!
Lepas pegi makan malam semalam, Alesya nak pegi kedai beli chewing gum. Bile mum kasi chewing gum semalam yg dah bukak, she started to throw such a big tantrums. Semua tak kena. Papa pujuk dia n bile mum nak amik, dia tak nak. Papa lie her down and still menangis2. I tried to pujuk her again and she refused. She cried about 15 minutes. Masa Akif nak pergi kat dia pun, dia menangis2. After that, barulah nak pergi kat Mummy and I breastfed her. Phewww! Masa tgk dia macam tu, rasa kesian sangat. Pas tu, dia ok. Is it because of this pregnancy? Is it because of her new nursery surroundings?
This morning pun Alesya buat hal. Nak Mummy dukung, nak mandi pun susah, nak iron baju pun tak kasi, semuanya serba tak kena. Papa nak dukung pun tak kasi. Bile buat susu botol barulah dia ok, tapi masa hantar gi nursery dia macam x nak pegi je, reluctant but no choice for her. Not so happy like yesterday and for the past few days. Pagi tadi Mummy hilang sabar, dahlah lambat gi keje.. Alesya buat hal.. Papa pun tension. Malam ni kena kunci jam bangun awal pagi. Taklah sakit hati stuck in a jam. Boss pun dah 'sound' suruh datang awal kalau nak balik awal.. Alamak, dengar suara dialah...
Akif lagi!
(this picture was taken masa pegi rumah Papa's friend - Panjang. Dia ngan selamba join anak2 Panjang tengok DVD. Bile Panjang masuk bilik, dia boleh tanya, "Takde CD lain ke?").Yesterday mum asked Akif what he learnt at school. He said, "Belajar bukulah". I asked him again, cikgu yg baru tu baik tak? He replied, "Mmmm, baik. Eh, taklah baik sangat". Then, I asked which teacher yg baik, "Oh, cikgu yg pakai tudung bola tu". Actually, design tudung tu bukan bola, cuma ada bentuk bulat2 jer. Bila papa tanya barulah dia cakap "Akif belajar amik air sembahyang". Papa corrected him, "Wudhuk?"... he nodded, "A'ah, wuduk".
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
8 months Pregnancy
Today is my 8 months pregnancy. Another a month to go. Last week pergi check, Dr. Siti was in a good mood. Dia scan and nampak the baby's eyes and tangan kat mulut. After this, start 2 weeks appointment. Next appointment is on 20th January. Alamak, gaji tak keluar lagi.. Boleh tak pergi last week of the month? Lagipun, Dr. Siti nak check 'discharge'. Berapa pulak kena tu? Belum decide lagi nak letak nama apa.
Akif dah masuk kelas 5 years old. Last week, dia masuk kelas 4 years and the teacher told me yesterday that dia tgk akif can cope with kelas yg sebaya ngan dia. Akif dah mula berselawat and dah hafal Al-Fatihah. Semalam baru Akif cakap yg Alesya menangis bile dia naik atas for his class. Kesian Alesya takde geng kat bawah. Semalam masa makan dia boleh jalan sampai kat jalanraya... nasib baik takde kereta... panjat meja makanlah, tak nak duduk diam. Hish, malu mummy dibuatnya. Orang semua tengok, lagi best bile dah kalut mcm tu, rush nak balik, mummy terlupa amik handbag sebab handbag tu letak kat tempat duduk Akif. Nasib baik tak masuk kereta lagi, kalau tak hanguslah semua barang n duit dlm tu. Dapatlah malu for the second time. Kdg2 orang tgk mcm kite yg tak tau jaga anak, tgk macam anak dialah yg paling baik dlm dunia. Well, this is maybe my perception. Yelah, kalau ye pun, tak payahlah sampai nak buat muka kan. Saya pun tgk anak org lain jugak, tp bile budak tu naughty I just ignorelah, since anak saya pun kadang2 tak behave kan. Biarlah depa...
Semalam Irfan and Ihsan bawak kek and party pack for Akif and Alesya sempena Birthday mummy depa.. Pulang pinggan kosong jer. Pas ni, kena balas baliklah.
Akif dah masuk kelas 5 years old. Last week, dia masuk kelas 4 years and the teacher told me yesterday that dia tgk akif can cope with kelas yg sebaya ngan dia. Akif dah mula berselawat and dah hafal Al-Fatihah. Semalam baru Akif cakap yg Alesya menangis bile dia naik atas for his class. Kesian Alesya takde geng kat bawah. Semalam masa makan dia boleh jalan sampai kat jalanraya... nasib baik takde kereta... panjat meja makanlah, tak nak duduk diam. Hish, malu mummy dibuatnya. Orang semua tengok, lagi best bile dah kalut mcm tu, rush nak balik, mummy terlupa amik handbag sebab handbag tu letak kat tempat duduk Akif. Nasib baik tak masuk kereta lagi, kalau tak hanguslah semua barang n duit dlm tu. Dapatlah malu for the second time. Kdg2 orang tgk mcm kite yg tak tau jaga anak, tgk macam anak dialah yg paling baik dlm dunia. Well, this is maybe my perception. Yelah, kalau ye pun, tak payahlah sampai nak buat muka kan. Saya pun tgk anak org lain jugak, tp bile budak tu naughty I just ignorelah, since anak saya pun kadang2 tak behave kan. Biarlah depa...
Semalam Irfan and Ihsan bawak kek and party pack for Akif and Alesya sempena Birthday mummy depa.. Pulang pinggan kosong jer. Pas ni, kena balas baliklah.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Today's HSE Bulletin
God left us great clues as to what foods help what part of our body! God's Pharmacy!
A sliced Carrot looks like the human eye. The pupil, iris and radiating lines look just like the human eye... and YES, science now shows carrots greatly enhance blood flow to and function of the eyes.
A Tomato has four chambers and is red. The heart has four chambers and is red. All o f the research shows tomatoes are loaded with lycopine and are indeed pure heart and blood food.
Grapes hang in a cluster that has the shape of the heart. Each grape looks like a blood cell and all of the research today shows grapes are also profound heart and blood vitalizing food.
A Walnut looks like a little brain, a left and right hemisphere, upper cerebrums and lower cerebellums. Even the wrinkles or folds on the nut are just like the neo-cortex. We now know walnuts help develop more than three (3) dozen neuron-transmitters for brain function.
Kidney Beans actually heal and help maintain kidney function and yes, they look exactly like the human kidneys.
Celery, Bok Choy, Rhubarb and many more look just like bones. These foods specifically target bone strength. Bones are 23% sodium and these foods are 23% sodium. If you don't have enough sodium in your diet, the body pulls it from the bones, thus making them weak. These foods replenish the skeletal needs of the body.
Avocadoes, Eggplant and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats one avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight, and prevents cervical cancers. And how profound is this? It takes exactly nine (9) months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the mobility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm as well to overcome male sterility.
Sweet Potatoes look like the pancreas and actually balance the glycemic index of diabetics.
Olives assist the health and function of the ovaries.
Oranges, Grapefruits, and other Citrus fruits look just like the mammary glands of the female and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
Onions look like the body's cells. Today's research shows onions h elp clear waste materials from all of the body cells. They even produce tears which wash the epithelial layers of the eyes. A working companion, Garlic, also helps eliminate waste materia! ls and dangerous free radicals from the body.
A sliced Carrot looks like the human eye. The pupil, iris and radiating lines look just like the human eye... and YES, science now shows carrots greatly enhance blood flow to and function of the eyes.
A Tomato has four chambers and is red. The heart has four chambers and is red. All o f the research shows tomatoes are loaded with lycopine and are indeed pure heart and blood food.
Grapes hang in a cluster that has the shape of the heart. Each grape looks like a blood cell and all of the research today shows grapes are also profound heart and blood vitalizing food.
A Walnut looks like a little brain, a left and right hemisphere, upper cerebrums and lower cerebellums. Even the wrinkles or folds on the nut are just like the neo-cortex. We now know walnuts help develop more than three (3) dozen neuron-transmitters for brain function.
Kidney Beans actually heal and help maintain kidney function and yes, they look exactly like the human kidneys.
Celery, Bok Choy, Rhubarb and many more look just like bones. These foods specifically target bone strength. Bones are 23% sodium and these foods are 23% sodium. If you don't have enough sodium in your diet, the body pulls it from the bones, thus making them weak. These foods replenish the skeletal needs of the body.
Avocadoes, Eggplant and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats one avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight, and prevents cervical cancers. And how profound is this? It takes exactly nine (9) months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the mobility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm as well to overcome male sterility.
Sweet Potatoes look like the pancreas and actually balance the glycemic index of diabetics.
Olives assist the health and function of the ovaries.
Oranges, Grapefruits, and other Citrus fruits look just like the mammary glands of the female and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
Onions look like the body's cells. Today's research shows onions h elp clear waste materials from all of the body cells. They even produce tears which wash the epithelial layers of the eyes. A working companion, Garlic, also helps eliminate waste materia! ls and dangerous free radicals from the body.
Info: Are you drinking the right drinks?
Are you drinking the right drinks?
TEA
1. People who use their 'brain' to work or students who study hard day and night.--- Should drink more Chrysanthemum Tea.
2. People who need a lot of body energy to work or those people who exercise a lot everyday.--- Should drink Wu Loong Tea.
3. People who travel on a bike or work in dirty and polluted places.--- Should drink Green Tea.
4. For people who like to sit down all day long and not do anything, even exercising--- Must drink Green Tea and Flower Tea.
5. People who smoke and drink a lot of alcoholic drinks. --- Should drink more Green Tea.
6. Carnivore ( i.e. people who must eat meat at least once a day, or feel sickly)--- Try to drink some Wu Loong Tea.
7. People who go to the washroom too often or not often enough.--- Should drink more Honey Tea
8. People with high cholesterol and high blood pressure.--- Wu Loong Tea, Green Tea.
9. Those who work with computers everyday.--- Need to drink a Lot of Tea (any tea will do).Whenever you are working with the computer, you should make some tea,drink it when you are free.
Drinking tea is healthy, it can protect and prevent the harmful Ultraviolet light from harming us (when using computer).
Furthermore, it can also relief us when we are tired and help make ourbody feel fresh again.
SOYA BEAN
All of us know that soyabean drink provides good protein to our body...but many of us don't know that there are certain days we should avoiddrinking it.Soya bean drinks are best consumed on hot sunny days when the sun is strong. The soya milk will give lots of nutrients to the body as thebody is able to absorb the protein well. However, avoid the drink when the weather is cloudy or raining. Takingthe drink in those weather, the body will not be able to take in theprotein and will result in a disease called 'GOUT' or 'high acidicurine' due to the high protein residue in the body, after a long run.This disease will cause pain to your knee joints and it will only be incontrol when you control your food intake of proteins and medication.The pain is unbearable and usually you will have no idea what you havetaken to cause the pain. Food like soya beans, anchovies, broccoli,spinach, peanuts, & n esp animal organs ( i.e. pork liver) etc will have to beavoided to prevent the pain from attacking.So my friend, pass this to your family, relatives and friends to keep analert on the pros and cons of soya bean milk and when it is to be takenand to be avoided.
TEA
1. People who use their 'brain' to work or students who study hard day and night.--- Should drink more Chrysanthemum Tea.
2. People who need a lot of body energy to work or those people who exercise a lot everyday.--- Should drink Wu Loong Tea.
3. People who travel on a bike or work in dirty and polluted places.--- Should drink Green Tea.
4. For people who like to sit down all day long and not do anything, even exercising--- Must drink Green Tea and Flower Tea.
5. People who smoke and drink a lot of alcoholic drinks. --- Should drink more Green Tea.
6. Carnivore ( i.e. people who must eat meat at least once a day, or feel sickly)--- Try to drink some Wu Loong Tea.
7. People who go to the washroom too often or not often enough.--- Should drink more Honey Tea
8. People with high cholesterol and high blood pressure.--- Wu Loong Tea, Green Tea.
9. Those who work with computers everyday.--- Need to drink a Lot of Tea (any tea will do).Whenever you are working with the computer, you should make some tea,drink it when you are free.
Drinking tea is healthy, it can protect and prevent the harmful Ultraviolet light from harming us (when using computer).
Furthermore, it can also relief us when we are tired and help make ourbody feel fresh again.
SOYA BEAN
All of us know that soyabean drink provides good protein to our body...but many of us don't know that there are certain days we should avoiddrinking it.Soya bean drinks are best consumed on hot sunny days when the sun is strong. The soya milk will give lots of nutrients to the body as thebody is able to absorb the protein well. However, avoid the drink when the weather is cloudy or raining. Takingthe drink in those weather, the body will not be able to take in theprotein and will result in a disease called 'GOUT' or 'high acidicurine' due to the high protein residue in the body, after a long run.This disease will cause pain to your knee joints and it will only be incontrol when you control your food intake of proteins and medication.The pain is unbearable and usually you will have no idea what you havetaken to cause the pain. Food like soya beans, anchovies, broccoli,spinach, peanuts, & n esp animal organs ( i.e. pork liver) etc will have to beavoided to prevent the pain from attacking.So my friend, pass this to your family, relatives and friends to keep analert on the pros and cons of soya bean milk and when it is to be takenand to be avoided.
Wanita
1. Seorang wanita solehah adalah lebih baik daripada 70 orang wali.
2. Seorang wanita solehah adalah lebih baik daripada 70 lelaki soleh.
3. Seorang wanita yang jahat adalah lebih buruk daripada 1,000 lelaki yang jahat.
4. 2 rakaat solat dari wanita yang hamil adalah lebih baik daripada 80 rakaat solat wanita yang tidak hamil.
5. Wanita yang memberi minum susu kepada anaknya daripada badannya (susu badan) akan dapat satu pahala daripada tiap-tiap titik susu yang diberikannya.
6. Wanita yang melayan dengan baik suami yang pulang ke rumah di dalam keadaan letih akan mendapat pahala jihad.
7. Wanita yang habiskan malamnya dengan tidur yang tidak selesa kerana menjaga anaknya yang sakit akan mendapat pahala seperti membebaskan 20 orang hamba.
8. Wanita yang melihat suaminya dengan kasih sayang dan suami yang melihat isterinya dengan kasih sayang akan dipandang Allah dengan penuh rahmat.
9. Wanita yang menyebabkan suaminya keluar dan berjuang ke jalan Allah dan kemudian menjaga adab rumahtangganya akan masuk syurga 500 tahun lebih awal daripada suaminya, akan menjadi ketua 70,000 maalaikat dan bidadari dan wanita itu akan dimandikan di dalam syurga, dan menunggu suaminya dengan menunggang kuda yang dibuat daripada yakut.
10. Wanita yang tidak cukup tidur pada malam hari kerana menjaga anak yang sakit akan diampunkan oleh Allah akan seluruh dosanya dan bila dia hiburkan hati anaknya Allah memberi 12 tahun pahala ibadat.
11. Wanita yang memerah susu binatang dengan "bismillah" akan didoakan oleh binatang itu dengan doa keberkatan.
12. Wanita yang menguli tepung gandum dengan bismillah", Allah akan berkatkan rezekinya.
13. Wanita yang menyapu lantai dengan berzikir akan mendapat pahala seperti meyapu lantai di baitullah.
14. Wanita yang menjaga solat, puasa dan taat pada suami, Allah akan mengizinkannya untuk memasuki syurga dari mana-mana pintu yang dia suka.
15. Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala berpuasa pada siang hari.
16 Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala beribadat pada malam hari.
17. Wanita yang bersalin akan mendapat pahala 70 tahun solat dan puasa dan setiap kesakitan pada satu uratnya Allah mengurniakan satu pahala haji.
18. Sekiranya wanita mati dalam masa 40 hari selepas bersalin, dia akan dikira sebagai mati syahid.
19. Jika wanita melayan suami tanpa khianat akan mendapat pahala 12 tahun solat.
20. Jika wanita menyusui anaknya sampai cukup tempoh (2 1/2 tahun), maka maalaikat-maalaikat di langit akan khabarkan berita bahawa syurga wajib baginya.
21. Jika wanita memberi susu badannya kepada anaknya yang menangis, Allah akan memberi pahala satu tahun solat dan puasa.
22. Jika wanita memicit suami tanpa disuruh akan mendapat pahala 7 tola emas dan jika wanita memicit suami bila disuruh akan mendapat pahala tola perak.
23. Wanita yang meniggal dunia dengan keredhaan suaminya akan memasuki syurga.
24. Jika suami mengajarkan isterinya satu masalah akan mendapat pahala 80 tahun ibadat.
25. Semua orang akan dipanggil untuk melihat wajah Allah di akhirat, tetapi Allah akan datang sendiri kepada wanita yang memberati auratnya iaitu memakai purdah di dunia ini dengan istiqamah.
Pandangan : Amatlah mudah bagi seorang wanita untuk menjejak Syurga. Namun begitu mengapa terlalu ramai yang masih hidup dalam kejahilan? Sang suami pula perlu ingat, tidak kamu jejaki syurga sebelum keluarga kamu menjejak syurga. Jangan ingat hendak kahwin empat jika yang satu belum terbela. Yang belum kahwin tu ingat, kamu terdedah kepada kemungkaran. Iman akan dicabar sehebat-hebatnya ketika ini. Pilih lah Syurga dan bukannya Neraka.Siapa tahu, hari ini kita tak sampai ke rumah sebab dipertengahan jalan kita bertemu Izrail.Siapa tahu, hari ini hari terakhir kita berjumpa pasangan kita sebab dipertengahan jalan, dia berjumpa Izrail. Bagaimana rasanya ketika berjumpa Izrail? Untuk yang beriman, macam 700 pedang yang tajam mencucuk kamu dalam semua arah. Yang tak beriman, bayangkan pisau potong daging kat pasar tu yang tumpul.Pisau tu menetak kepala kita macam mana orang memecahkan tempurung kelapa. Kepala kita di kopak dua, dipisahkan dengan kasarnya, ketika kita masih hidup. Lepas tu di kapak-kapak kan kepala kita macam tembikai. Itu baru bab kepala. Belum masuk tangan, kaki, badan, etc....Hadis Nabi Mengenai Wanita.Doa perempuan lebih makbul daripada lelaki kerana sifat penyayang yang lebih kuat daripada lelaki.Ketika ditanya kepada Rasulullah akan hal tersebut, jawab baginda, "Ibu lebih penyayang daripada bapa dan doa orang yang penyayang tidak akan sia-sia".
2. Seorang wanita solehah adalah lebih baik daripada 70 lelaki soleh.
3. Seorang wanita yang jahat adalah lebih buruk daripada 1,000 lelaki yang jahat.
4. 2 rakaat solat dari wanita yang hamil adalah lebih baik daripada 80 rakaat solat wanita yang tidak hamil.
5. Wanita yang memberi minum susu kepada anaknya daripada badannya (susu badan) akan dapat satu pahala daripada tiap-tiap titik susu yang diberikannya.
6. Wanita yang melayan dengan baik suami yang pulang ke rumah di dalam keadaan letih akan mendapat pahala jihad.
7. Wanita yang habiskan malamnya dengan tidur yang tidak selesa kerana menjaga anaknya yang sakit akan mendapat pahala seperti membebaskan 20 orang hamba.
8. Wanita yang melihat suaminya dengan kasih sayang dan suami yang melihat isterinya dengan kasih sayang akan dipandang Allah dengan penuh rahmat.
9. Wanita yang menyebabkan suaminya keluar dan berjuang ke jalan Allah dan kemudian menjaga adab rumahtangganya akan masuk syurga 500 tahun lebih awal daripada suaminya, akan menjadi ketua 70,000 maalaikat dan bidadari dan wanita itu akan dimandikan di dalam syurga, dan menunggu suaminya dengan menunggang kuda yang dibuat daripada yakut.
10. Wanita yang tidak cukup tidur pada malam hari kerana menjaga anak yang sakit akan diampunkan oleh Allah akan seluruh dosanya dan bila dia hiburkan hati anaknya Allah memberi 12 tahun pahala ibadat.
11. Wanita yang memerah susu binatang dengan "bismillah" akan didoakan oleh binatang itu dengan doa keberkatan.
12. Wanita yang menguli tepung gandum dengan bismillah", Allah akan berkatkan rezekinya.
13. Wanita yang menyapu lantai dengan berzikir akan mendapat pahala seperti meyapu lantai di baitullah.
14. Wanita yang menjaga solat, puasa dan taat pada suami, Allah akan mengizinkannya untuk memasuki syurga dari mana-mana pintu yang dia suka.
15. Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala berpuasa pada siang hari.
16 Wanita yang hamil akan dapat pahala beribadat pada malam hari.
17. Wanita yang bersalin akan mendapat pahala 70 tahun solat dan puasa dan setiap kesakitan pada satu uratnya Allah mengurniakan satu pahala haji.
18. Sekiranya wanita mati dalam masa 40 hari selepas bersalin, dia akan dikira sebagai mati syahid.
19. Jika wanita melayan suami tanpa khianat akan mendapat pahala 12 tahun solat.
20. Jika wanita menyusui anaknya sampai cukup tempoh (2 1/2 tahun), maka maalaikat-maalaikat di langit akan khabarkan berita bahawa syurga wajib baginya.
21. Jika wanita memberi susu badannya kepada anaknya yang menangis, Allah akan memberi pahala satu tahun solat dan puasa.
22. Jika wanita memicit suami tanpa disuruh akan mendapat pahala 7 tola emas dan jika wanita memicit suami bila disuruh akan mendapat pahala tola perak.
23. Wanita yang meniggal dunia dengan keredhaan suaminya akan memasuki syurga.
24. Jika suami mengajarkan isterinya satu masalah akan mendapat pahala 80 tahun ibadat.
25. Semua orang akan dipanggil untuk melihat wajah Allah di akhirat, tetapi Allah akan datang sendiri kepada wanita yang memberati auratnya iaitu memakai purdah di dunia ini dengan istiqamah.
Pandangan : Amatlah mudah bagi seorang wanita untuk menjejak Syurga. Namun begitu mengapa terlalu ramai yang masih hidup dalam kejahilan? Sang suami pula perlu ingat, tidak kamu jejaki syurga sebelum keluarga kamu menjejak syurga. Jangan ingat hendak kahwin empat jika yang satu belum terbela. Yang belum kahwin tu ingat, kamu terdedah kepada kemungkaran. Iman akan dicabar sehebat-hebatnya ketika ini. Pilih lah Syurga dan bukannya Neraka.Siapa tahu, hari ini kita tak sampai ke rumah sebab dipertengahan jalan kita bertemu Izrail.Siapa tahu, hari ini hari terakhir kita berjumpa pasangan kita sebab dipertengahan jalan, dia berjumpa Izrail. Bagaimana rasanya ketika berjumpa Izrail? Untuk yang beriman, macam 700 pedang yang tajam mencucuk kamu dalam semua arah. Yang tak beriman, bayangkan pisau potong daging kat pasar tu yang tumpul.Pisau tu menetak kepala kita macam mana orang memecahkan tempurung kelapa. Kepala kita di kopak dua, dipisahkan dengan kasarnya, ketika kita masih hidup. Lepas tu di kapak-kapak kan kepala kita macam tembikai. Itu baru bab kepala. Belum masuk tangan, kaki, badan, etc....Hadis Nabi Mengenai Wanita.Doa perempuan lebih makbul daripada lelaki kerana sifat penyayang yang lebih kuat daripada lelaki.Ketika ditanya kepada Rasulullah akan hal tersebut, jawab baginda, "Ibu lebih penyayang daripada bapa dan doa orang yang penyayang tidak akan sia-sia".
Monday, February 9, 2009
Progress at Pre School and comm. skills
Alhamdulillah, Akif dah pandai baca Al-Fatihah. I know, it is quite late for his age to know Al Fatihah but I guess its never too late than never. Just now he asked Papa some questions, and Papa got it wrong. He said, "Papa, you got wrong answer". Papa asked him where did he learnt that words, he said from the movie "Space Chimps"!. Akif cakap budak gemuk kat sekolah dia still kacau dia. Malam ni ada gerhana bulan dalam pukul 12 lebih kot. Alesya dah tidur tapi Akif still tak nak tidur. Dari tadi balik dari Ikano sampai kat rumah asyik cakap jer. Hish, banyak betul energy budak sorang ni.
Aquaria and KLCC
We went to Aquaria yesterday. Got discount for me and hubby as well. Paid RM22 each and Akif's for RM15. Akif was so excited and Alesya was a bit afraid at first, after awhile, she's ok. Akif quite brave to hold the Starfish. After we got out from the big aquarium, it was my first time heard Akif said, "Wow, its awesome!". He must have learnt it from TV. Then, we ate at Level 2, foodcourt. Akif wanted 'mee hitam' which is 'Sizzling Mee'. At that time, Papa already bought Spagetti Carbonara for 2 and one plate of pizza. Papa reluctant to buy him the mee hitam but I bought for him afterall. I want him to taste it. Akif followed me to the stall. Akif nampak the guy making the Sizzling Mee and api agak besar. Bila dia nampak api yg besar tu, he said to me, "Mummy, api neraka". I laughed when he said that. Akif suka makan the Sizzling Mee walaupun agak pedas for him. Berapa kali teguk air. Kalau Alesya should be no problem sebab dia boleh tahan pedas.
There were a few occassions Akif terbabas cakap. Dalam lift, ada mamat bawak helmet, dia cakap 'Mummy, Rempit!'. and masa makan kat Vicchuda ada 2 guys hisap rokok. Sorang quite fat and sorang kurus. Dia ngan selamba cakap "Papa, orang gemuk tu hisap rokok and kawan dia yg kurus tu pun hisap rokok. Tak bagus kan Pa!". Luckily, meja bukan sebelah, kalau dorang mengamuk, habislah kite Akif!. Dahlah suara dia high pitchnye..
There were a few occassions Akif terbabas cakap. Dalam lift, ada mamat bawak helmet, dia cakap 'Mummy, Rempit!'. and masa makan kat Vicchuda ada 2 guys hisap rokok. Sorang quite fat and sorang kurus. Dia ngan selamba cakap "Papa, orang gemuk tu hisap rokok and kawan dia yg kurus tu pun hisap rokok. Tak bagus kan Pa!". Luckily, meja bukan sebelah, kalau dorang mengamuk, habislah kite Akif!. Dahlah suara dia high pitchnye..
Katil Akif
I have decided to buy Akif's bed eventhough it is quite expensive. I know hubby is not so keen about my choice. Considered expensive but my rational is long term. I want to buy good quality product so that i don't incur any cost later like having to buy a new bed for them again. Once and for all. It was on sale after all. Hopefully, he can fork up some money for this!
The promotion is until this Sunday. I wanted to buy the bed during mega sale last year which was on December but I got no money.
The promotion is until this Sunday. I wanted to buy the bed during mega sale last year which was on December but I got no money.
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
New Pre School
I sent them on Monday with Papa. After Papa paid the fees, he has to rush to work. When I want to leave the place, Alesya was screaming loudly. I left her with agony. I reacted normal in front of her but deep down inside I felt sad and pity leaving them. Do I have a choice? No, currently I don't have any. Sometimes, I felt jealous with Adik and Pina because they have my mother and mother in law to take care of their baby. Actually, I cannot complaint because there are a lots of kids out there that live without parents. Just imagine Palestine!!
1st day of school - Akif reacted ok because he has to take care of Alesya. He didn't started at the class yet. Alesya menangis and after I left, the teacher said that Alesya asyik peluk Akif jer. When I picked them up, both of them tgh minum susu. Belum masuk kereta, Akif cakap, "oklah mummy sekolah ni".
2nd day of school - When Papa and the teacher sent him to the class, he cried because he doesn't want to learn. I knew this must got something to do with his experienced at SRKJ last time. Papa left him upstairs and Alesya pun menangis when we want to leave the place. Sorang menangis kat atas, sorang kat bawah... hhhmmmm.. We picked them up at about 5 pm, Alesya with her hairdo. Siap tocang 3 lagi, sikitlah punye suka dia.. In the car, she was jumping up and down and dancing when she heard a song. Akif pulak told Papa that one fat boy disturbed him and he told Papa what he learnt at school (ada benda sambung2). We went to Giant after that and they seemed very happy and reacted normal. Alesya pulak tertidur dlm kereta on the way back. Penatlah tu sb tak tido sehari suntuk.
3rd day of school - Papa mandikan Akif but for Alesya, we let her sleep. She didn't have a good nite sleep yesterday. She woke up a few times. She drank a lot of plain water and demanding to breastfeed her. Last resort, I made her susu botol. Akif complained again that he didn't want to go to school. "Akif tak nak belajar, akif nak cuti!" He told that when Papa mandikan dia. Mana taknyer, celik jer mata terus on PSP... Hish! Akif naik motor ngan Papa and Mummy with Alesya. Alesya seem ok and happy in the car, siap bye2 Papa and Akif and called Papa a few times tapi bile sampai sekolah, dia menangis lagi. But at least not as bad as 2 days ago. The teacher said that Alesya x nak makan and Akif kena suap. No wander she was so cranky yesterday nite. Just wait what they will say when I pick them up this afternoon. Hopefully, Alesya nak makan and Akif start to perform solat today.
1st day of school - Akif reacted ok because he has to take care of Alesya. He didn't started at the class yet. Alesya menangis and after I left, the teacher said that Alesya asyik peluk Akif jer. When I picked them up, both of them tgh minum susu. Belum masuk kereta, Akif cakap, "oklah mummy sekolah ni".
2nd day of school - When Papa and the teacher sent him to the class, he cried because he doesn't want to learn. I knew this must got something to do with his experienced at SRKJ last time. Papa left him upstairs and Alesya pun menangis when we want to leave the place. Sorang menangis kat atas, sorang kat bawah... hhhmmmm.. We picked them up at about 5 pm, Alesya with her hairdo. Siap tocang 3 lagi, sikitlah punye suka dia.. In the car, she was jumping up and down and dancing when she heard a song. Akif pulak told Papa that one fat boy disturbed him and he told Papa what he learnt at school (ada benda sambung2). We went to Giant after that and they seemed very happy and reacted normal. Alesya pulak tertidur dlm kereta on the way back. Penatlah tu sb tak tido sehari suntuk.
3rd day of school - Papa mandikan Akif but for Alesya, we let her sleep. She didn't have a good nite sleep yesterday. She woke up a few times. She drank a lot of plain water and demanding to breastfeed her. Last resort, I made her susu botol. Akif complained again that he didn't want to go to school. "Akif tak nak belajar, akif nak cuti!" He told that when Papa mandikan dia. Mana taknyer, celik jer mata terus on PSP... Hish! Akif naik motor ngan Papa and Mummy with Alesya. Alesya seem ok and happy in the car, siap bye2 Papa and Akif and called Papa a few times tapi bile sampai sekolah, dia menangis lagi. But at least not as bad as 2 days ago. The teacher said that Alesya x nak makan and Akif kena suap. No wander she was so cranky yesterday nite. Just wait what they will say when I pick them up this afternoon. Hopefully, Alesya nak makan and Akif start to perform solat today.
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